Thursday, April 26, 2012

Honor

 Honor is a concept that you don't see discussed much anymore.  To be possessed of honor is almost an antiquated virtue, something that went out with the age of chivalry. Honor speaks to personal dignity and character. It is an abstract concept that, psychologically speaking, is as real to the human mind as love. Dr. Samuel Johnson described honor as "nobility of soul, magnanimity, and a scorn of meanness." The modern dictionary defines it as: (n) honesty, fairness, or integrity. 

One who is possessed of honor is honorable, described in the modern dictionary as being of high rank, dignity, or distinction; noble, illustrious, or distinguished, worthy of honor and high respect; estimable; creditable.

We give honor to honorable people, we regard or treat them with admiration and respect.

Honor is a very large thing. It is something that we can possess, it is something that is the fabric of our being. It is something that we can gift to others.
In the world at large we don't see very much honor. We see things that are very wearying. One thing has struck me, as I find my way and make my home in this community of bloggers. Honor is a concept with which we are all well acquainted. It is at the center of our relationships. It is something that we value and strive to perpetuate. We encourage it in ourselves and in our friends. 
  


Honor is not a one way concept for us in this community. It is not something that comes from the bottom up. It is something that cycles from us to our partners and from them back to us. They honor our submission. We are loved, cherished, respected and elevated. We honor their leadership. And we love, cherish, respect and elevate our partners. This reciprocity builds bonds of loyalty, and we strive to maintain these positive relationships. We have a higher degree of empathy for each other.

We honor and support others in the community and their individual journeys, and we receive the same in return.



 
People think that we are an aberration, a throwback to times of servitude and subjugation. They do not see or understand the beauty, the gentility, the high standards to which each of us holds ourselves. I would rather live in this community of honorable people, than the world of 'equal' and 'liberated' persons.

I honor and thank my Daddy. He is the most honorable, honest, loyal and nurturing person I have ever had the privilege of having in my life. He honors my submission, and he asks nothing more of me than that I be the very best me that I can be. He honors and humbles me with his love. I love him with my all.

I thank each and every one of my new friends. I thank you for your humor. I thank you for your wisdom. I thank you for your insights. I thank you for your ears. I thank you for your ideas and your advice. I thank you for your welcoming acceptance of Daddy and myself, and of each other. I am humbled and honored to know each and every one of you.


12 comments:

  1. This was really nice June. When I first started reading it really made me think of what an Honorable man dady is and how luck I am to have him in my life. And to have frined like you, thanks!

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    1. Thank you and you are most welcome, my friend. I consider my self a very lucky person to have the people in my life that I do. And I am proud an honored to call you my friend as well!

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  2. This is so beautifully written June. I love the figure 8 picture. The love and respect we give really does come back to us and elevates us both to new places.
    Learning from each other is such a benefit of joining the blogging community. Sharing really does help us all grow I think.

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    1. Thanks very much, Zoe. I love the picture, too. It perfectly illustrates the concept I was trying to convey. People think that we, as submissive women, are drained. That we feed and are not fed in return. But it is this beautiful symphony, the more we give, the more we yield, the more we are given.

      I have never in my life been as emotionally wealthy as I am right now with my Ward. I have never been so affected by anyone so that I feel both his absence from and his presence in my life at the very same time. It is not stagnant, it is a flow of energy and it is vital, alive, organic. That energy radiates out into the community. I grow and learn every day and I am grateful.

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  3. Such a touching post June. Thank you for expressing so well what so many of us feel. Honor is a long forgotten thing, except to us few. I'm honored to be among those few.

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    1. Thank you, faerie, and you are most welcome. I am honored as well to count myself as Ward's and to count myself as part of this community.

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  4. What you have written is beautiful and you have obviously put much thought into it. Thank you for sharing it. I am honored to be here also.

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    1. Thank you, Jacquie. Yes, I've been stewing on it for a little bit. I have a couple in process like that :)

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  5. Seconding all the above comments. Very beautiful post. Add me to the list of people honored to know you and call you friend. :)

    I lurves ya Juniebug. Lol.

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    1. Aww, thanks, Monsters Little Sweet Dream, lol. I am most honored to call you my friend & thank you for pulling me back from the edge when I start spinning ^ Daddy isn't here. The honor is all mine. Lurves you, too!

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    2. Haha, sweet little dream...I will take it.

      Always welcome. :) I'm there for ya whenever ya need it.

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    3. Tanks :) Here for you too, if you ever need it. But you have that super awesome Monster ;)

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