Listed (in no particular order)
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1. A spanking should be a good spanking, so many times I feel like I want too much when others describe "a good spanking" as 50 mild seeming swats with the open hand over panties... that's not even a warm-up. And as we all know, its not a spanking unless it's on the bare bottom. Some say I am nuts, but to me a good spanking can last well over an hour and should in fact leave the spankee with a nice, toasty, red bottom
2. Videos: This could be a whole separate post, and in fact I will probably expand on this topic later at some point. There aren't enough legitimate spanking video companies that produce, good, quality product. There seems to be a "sameness" in a lot of the videos, the same type of guy giving some 19 year old waif some sort of contrived "discipline" spanking.... I know I'm not everybody but it often times seems like they are going for a certain crowd. I'd really love to see more variety in produced spanking media. I'd also love to see a real woman (with real curves) take a real spanking that leaves the skin a bracing shade of beautiful red.
3. Have you ever noticed that sometimes thoughts of spanking can be near overwhelming when you aren't prepared for them? The other day I was at work and out of nowhere the idea of giving a good sound spanking nearly distracted me to the point of ineffectiveness. I hesitate to put this one up here because in a way... I do kind of enjoy it.
4. It took me forever to find June. It is hell finding someone that is compatible in the spanking world. It pays to be selective and I am glad that I did, but finding just the right person to even chat with about spanking can be most challenging.
There are so many more rewards to this lifestyle than the cons I listed above. I love the intimacy it fosters and the warmth and physical unity that it so often brings me and lovely Ms. June.
Here are some things that I love about the spanking world
1. Finding that rare example of a good sound spanking in video form
2. Sharing that moment with my sweetheart and relishing the beauty of her body, bare before my eyes
3. The visual delights that a nice plump, round bottom gives us when we watch it being spanked
4. The knowledge that I am in fact not alone in these thoughts
5. Having this amazing kink grow stronger all the time... even after a decade of active play I love it now more than ever.
6. Writing... I don't do it near often enough, I am hoping to share more with you when I get back off deployment... Sometimes it seems nothing stokes my fires like writing about the many delights of spanking.
Ultimately, I am proud to be a spanker and proud to have a beautiful, sweet spankee like June for my very own. Being a spanko isn't always easy, but it sure is fun!
No, nothing in this world gets your attention like a good, sound spanking. Whether it's the passion of a good-girl, or a just because, or the reassurance of maintenance or a submission spanking, or, heaven forbid, a correction.
I have craved these things since I was a child. And no, it is not at all easy to find someone who shares your view as to incorporating spanking into a relationship, and even then less likely that you will find someone who agrees what constitutes a good spanking. Like Daddy said, if I want one, need one, deserve one and you take me across your lap for 50 or even 100 swats, you're just going to make me angry. The whole point is emotional release, if you're not willing to take me there, let's not even start.
It's great to be able to go to him and say, Daddy, I'm stressed, please....and have him kiss my forehead and take me across his lap. Even better when he pulls me into his lap for a cuddle, asks what's wrong and if I need a spanking (who's going to turn that offer down?). It helps. It's my purge, and having that gifted to me by someone I trust with my very life is the most amazing sensation.
I'm proud to be Daddy's girl. I'm proud to have the love of a courageous, noble, virtuous, honorable man. And yes, it is lots of fun, too!