A Daddy Dominant's Creed & Caring For Your Little Girl

~ The Daddy-Dominants Creed ~
  • Above all else a Daddy cherishes his girl , and takes great delight in watching her grow
  • A Daddy/little can be demanding and Daddy most times takes full advantage of the power given to them, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift of having a " little "
  • A Daddy is in control of themself first and foremost, so that They may control and take control of thier " little ".
  • As a stern and demanding yet caring compassionate nurturer , they may cause their babygirl / submissive to cry real tears , but will ALWAYS be there to wipe them away .
  • As the consummate lover, They will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
  • In times of trouble, a Daddy will never leave the role behind, and is always there to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
  • A Daddy is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality.
  • A Daddy would never ask His little to put Him before their career, or family, just to satisfy their own pleasure , yet will encourage independance in growth
  • To win a " littles " mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, a Daddy knows they must first win their trust.
  • A Daddy will show their submissive humour, kindness, and warmth . how to play , when to play , and its not always a sexual nature .
  • A Daddy must always show His " little " that their guidance and tutoring is deserving of their attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that they can trust their direction.
  • A Daddy is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, He will fight for Their " little's " honour.
  • A Daddy proves to their " little " that His is someone they can lean on, and depend on.
  • When it comes time to teach His girl their lessons of obedience, they are a strong and unyielding professor , but always nurturing , loving and patient .
  • A Daddy will accept His " little " as she grows but wants the best for her so nothing less than perfection from His " little " will be allowed while she learns .
  • Never does a Daddy use discipline without a good reason. When they do punish thier " little's ", it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
  • A Daddy is always open to communication and discussion; always ready to hear their submissive's wants and needs.
  • A Daddy is patient; taking time to learn the limits of His " little " , and knowing that as their trust of them grows, so will they.
  • A Daddy understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to them.
  • A Daddy is secure enough to laugh at Himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow.
  • A Daddy's tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. ( and a great set of hands " grins " )
A true Daddy-Dom is not hesitant to kneel to His submissive/babygirl.little and kiss her hand in honor of her trust, service, and love for Him.
rewritten from a Dominants creed to fit this lifestyle , by me ! (NOT June - link to author's site provided below)
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In every girl's life, there is a force, a presence, a Daddy, a Dominant she lives and breathes to love and honor. A Top is for tonight, a Dom is for however long they're needed, a Master as long as they seek Mastery, but a Daddy is forever
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From a really cool social site I found by accident - grin
http://babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com/

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Caring for your little girl

Most all babygirls love to be spoiled ! And its not all who wish to be spoiled monetarily . Some want cuddles , praise for a job well done , some want extra Daddy time when the world is tough and just need that extra special touch that only a Daddy can have on her ... and no thats not guided towards a sexual nature ... because not all Daddy / lg relationships consist of sex , but most do , that depends on Y/your relationship ...
Babygirls just need all the special love and cuddles You can give them , some want it 24/7 , while others can go for days and not have their "little" need the attention ....
If You've never had a babygirl to care for , please do read all You can on the subject , chat to friends in this lifestyle , but above all.... speak with your " little " because in the end of it all... she is the one who will make You the happiest ... being a "little " / " babygirl " has it's own very special rewards !
Things Y/you may not already know to do for her
As Y/you have already read in the pages before this one ( and i do hope that Y/you have read the pages before this one and not just skipped to this page ) babygirls are not an incestuous dirty lil secret . We are loving adult females whom just need special care from time to time . For some its 24/7 , others its an on again off again type of role-play . My own care is 24/7 however " smiles " So for that reason i thought i would write something on the care of your babygirl . Again these are only my opinions and things that have helped my Daddy to care better for me or things He's shown me over time that work .
This will help in any relationship , whether lifestyle or 'nilla ...
When she stares at you for no reason
ask what's on her mind , because something is there on her mind and she wants You to know
When she pushes you or challenges you
smile , and hold her , tell her You know this game and play with her, most "littles " love to wrestle about whether mental or physical
When she starts trying to act all tough
Kiss her and tell her you love her, hold her tightly and don't let go
When she's quiet
Ask her what's wrong , hardly any " little " I know is quiet unless something is wrong
When she ignores you
Give her your attention , in a positive way , she needs You most then
When she pulls away
[ Pull her back and don't let her go till the issue is resolved ]
When you see her at her worst
Tell her she's beautiful , and make her believe You , is those days when she will love You best
When she doesn't see herself beautiful , make her see herself thru Your eyes
When you see her start crying
Just hold her and don't say a word , this one is the most important of all i think
When you see her walking away
grab her and don't let go, tickle her , kiss her and make her feel loved
When she's scared
Protect her , " littles " have fears , especially when she feels her world as a " little " is threatened !
When she steals your favorite hat or shirt
Let her keep it and sleep with it , put some of Your cologne on it , make it a special gift she's taken
When she teases you
Tease her back and make her laugh , play with your babygirl , sometimes " littles " tease as a way to get to know Daddy
When she doesn't answer for a long time
reassure her that everything is okay , give her time , she may have a fear of talking to You
When she looks at you with doubt
Back yourself up , always make sure you're consistent , that builds a firm foundation for her to stand on
When she says that she loves you
SHE REALLY DOES MORE THAN YOU COULD UNDERSTAND!!!
When she grabs at your hands
Hold hers and play with her fingers , " littles " love Daddy's hands
When she bumps into you;
bump into her back and make her laugh , she is seeking attention, give it to her
When she tells you a secret
keep it safe and untold , even if its a dark secret of hers , she has trusted You to keep it
When she looks at you in your eyes
don't look away until she does , she wants to see herself in You
When she says it's over
she still wants You to be hers and she wants to be Yours , but something has happened to make her afraid , she is Your " little" for forever
If she calls You out of the blue
Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything.
f there is an argument
When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go , When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because 10 years later she'll remember
Call her or wake her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
Treat her like she's all that matters to you
Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid. When she cries kiss away her tears
When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is; "Whose ass am I kicking baby?"
If she can't sleep , read her a story
When her hair needs brushing before bed , grab her brush , have her sit below You and brush her hair slowly show her her care is indeed something You want too
give her gifts as a surprise for being a good girl , " littles " love surprises !!
If You care for Your babygirl with these things in mind , You should have a long, loving commitment that's pleasurable to both parties involved ....
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From http://babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com/

11 comments:

  1. Thank you for this. It has lifted me more than ever.

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    1. You're most most welcome :) It spoke to me deeply, I'm glad you found something in it that spoke to you.

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  2. That was very interesting to read and I'm going to check out the site too, thanks for sharing

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    1. You're most welcome, Tiffany. It's a very comfortable,loving dynamic for us.

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  3. Few understand or grasp it from either side; fewer still take hold of the strength to live it, and be who we are in side. This was beautiful to read, thank you for doing it and adjusting what already was there. It added more depth, and touches the core in any one of us that is in either place. Thank you.

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    1. Few do understand it, and that is sad. For some of us, it is the most wonderful, most loved, most protected we have ever felt. I'm glad it spoke to you as it did to me. Thanks for your lovely words.

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  4. I'm am a first time daddy and I'm glad I found this you are a brilliant woman thank you for your helpful and most informitive blog you have helped me so much thank you

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    1. I'm glad this helped.. Best of luck to you and your little. It is a wonderful life if you are committed to each other!

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  5. This is one of the best things I have read in so long. Thank you so much for sharing!

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    1. You're most welcome :) I loved it when I found it and there is not very much out there, some of the resources being difficult to find.

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  6. I am extremely new to the lifestyle and have found this information very helpful. It almost feels too real to be true. I finally understand why vanilla never worked for me and the thought of actually getting what i need from a Daddy and being able to serve him like i love to do, is mind blowing. I have a very sweet man I want to submit to but i haven't known him long and I'm not sure how to go about the situation. Reading this definitely let me know that he's the right Daddy for me. He feels the same way but Im not sure when the "right" time is.

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