Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?Now that is just entirely too silly! I do not have a dominant bone in my body. Before Daddy I was approached by several lifestyle friends who asked if I could switch with them. And the mere thought makes me nervous & uncomfortable. I am not dominant. I do not like being in charge.It is tiring because it is not being true to myself.
In my relationship with Daddy, of course there are things I maintain control over. I maintain control over the way I represent myself. Daddy does not control that, but he does hold me accountable. I am mindful that my behavior not only represents me, it represents Daddy, and models for our children. I maintain control over my responsibilities. Daddy does not micromanage, but he does hold me accountable. I am mindful that when I uphold my responsibilities our home is a place of peace and respite.