Tuesday, March 12, 2013

What June's Submission Means to Ward.


                                                  

 June's submission is the sweet ambrosia that allows me to ascend beyond the limits and constraints of mere-mortal manhood.  Submission is her gift to me and in so offering, I must ascend, I must respect, I must develop into the man that is worthy of her love, support and submission.  I take and/or make time every day to not only acknowledge the gift of her submission, but to develop, nurture and strengthen it and our dynamic.








                                                            





I have told June many times that she is a natural submissive... She would probably say that she is just herself and that it is my dominance that has such an affect on  her. She honors me with her words and even if she was just being herself, she brings me so much more than I have ever had or could dare dream of.  In my previous relationships, I often felt marginalized,  ignored, disrespected, unimportant.  Indeed at times it felt like I was struggling to carry the weight of the world on my shoulders.  It saddens me that I cannot take the time that I lost and give it back to June... but I also realize that without  the life experiences I have, I could not be the man that I am and I never would have met my one true soul mate... and that would truly be a tragedy.  We have discussed the impact that communication has on a healthy relationship and at times that communication does in fact extend beyond words.


                                           


Submission isn't always easy but it's impact is immediate and undeniable. One of the things that I really must do is give June credit where it is due. I know that I am not always the easiest person to deal with. I have high expectations for our  communication, our family and, of course, us as a couple.  Even when I am not at my best, even when it is difficult, June responds with grace and love and even when  I haven't handled something particularly well, she takes that extra second, breathes and allows her submission to bloom out ahead of what may have been in the front of her mind. This effort, seemingly small  is often the difference between cool heads and  a misunderstanding and, June my love, again I salute you, I know that I am not always easy or pleasant.

Submission also comes in the form of the love and care that she provides. Many times before thought formed in my head, June was there with a glass of water or I've come home to find my favorite meal hot and on the table. In many ways it is so much more than taking care of me or our home... She is taking care of us and the bond that we hold dear.  Knowing these things, and observing them with clear mind and proud eyes... I strive and am forced to become a better, more attentive man... She deserves no less and in truth, our relationship cannot be allowed to stagnate. Effort every day, even when it isn't easy drives growth and reciprocity.



                                                         



Submission

- Feeds our dynamic and provokes communication, thought, growth and effort
- Feeds my Dominance and draws it out
- Allows us to feel our HoH and TiH rolls evenly and fully
- Guides and guards our hearts and minds and keeps them focused on growth, communication, stability and reciprocity
- Ignites our love life and  and fuels our passion for each other





                                                             



 Her grace even under pressure charmed me from the first and her thirst for my dominance allowed for the easy and delightful expression of our physical passion. She presents, she offers herself fully and unwaveringly even when it hurts, even when it is a test, she recognizes the value of intensity and gifts me with the sweetness of her body and the warmth of her mind. We are big advocates of  a lifestyle enriched by communication, reciprocity, dominance, submission and  above all love. So what does it mean to me? It means that I have been given the opportunity to love harder, to cherish, to respect, to teach, to guide and to grow into the man that June deserves.  Her submission is a key component in our developing not a good relationship....but a great one! 

We encourage each and every one  to discover what submission means to you and how it can further your relationship goals, bring you closer and awaken a passion that is uniquely and truly yours!


                                                            
         










Her POV:

Let's see if June can type through tears..... I am really just me. I don't try to be or do anything. I do respond to his Dominance. It's almost tangible. I spent most of my life feeling lost, adrift. I gave and was minimalized. My resources, my heart and soul were drained. I felt that I had nothing left to give, and certainly wouldn't be worth receiving, because it had no worth to anyone at full capacity. Here I was, hollow, depleted... I had given up.

Ward came into my life, and I was amazed that he wanted me. And I am amazed still. He sees me... he sees straight into my soul, and he loves me still. He looks at all that jumble in there and he shows me that I am worthy. He accepts my need to serve. He proclaims me beautiful in service. He allows me to feel his Dominance cover me like an umbrella on a storm-tossed day, or a blanket, warm, soft, comforting, and protective.
 
Again here, which came first, the chicken or the egg? I don't think it matters. It just matters that we feed each other, fulfill each other, consume each other and grow better and stronger, and more entwined with every interaction.





21 comments:

  1. This is absolutely beautiful both of you. You two are amazing people and I'm so glad you both were able to find what you needed in each other.

    Hugs,
    TL

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    1. Thanks so much, TL. I am very blessed to be so well-loved :)

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  2. Dang you two, ya did it again! Ok, lets see if I can type through my tears...Ward you are so right...June is a very special and loving lady. I truly admire how she handles everything on her plate with such grace and love. I also know from personal experience that when those qualities are not valued and nurtured, they are withdrawn back into hiding. So chicken or egg? June is right, it doesn't matter...June values and nurtures your dominance while you value and nurture her submission so that together you are absolutely wonderful! Thank you so much for all you share.

    Hugs and Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. He has a knack, Cat, lol. I had a hard time typing my POV my own self, lol. I thank you very much for your very kind words. I don't feel like I do anything special, most times I don't feel like I do enough. But everything I do, I know is received with gratitude and is valued. That is wonderfully amazing :)

      (((hugs)))

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  3. This is truly beautiful. I loved the cyclical imagery in Ward's description - the two states of being: submission and dominance really feed each other, don't they? As Ian is more dominant, I become more submissive, and of course it stands to reason when I am less submissive it results in less dominance in my husband. Ward's description of June's femininity, her way of being allowing his masculinity to blossom, like a cactus in the desert - is really the beauty of dd.
    Loved the description of how Ward filled your life, Junie - body and soul. Beautiful.
    Perfectly lovely post, you two.

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    1. Thanks so much, lillie :) He expresses it beautifully. I have to remind myself to come back here when I am doubting myself and read this one again.

      It is very cyclical, and very much chicken or egg, it doesn't matter which comes first, just takes one to start the effort, and we feed each other. In the face of the gift how can the other not reciprocate? Such a lovely dance!

      (((hugs)))

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  4. True love so beautiful. HUGS

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    1. Thanks so much, Annie :) (((hugs)))

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  5. So much truth and beauty in this post. I have found it to be very true, dominance encourages submission, which in turn encourages more dominance. You both so eloquently express your love for each other.
    hugs abby

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    1. Thanks so much, abby. Nothing in my life has ever felt as real, or has fulfilled me as much.

      (((hugs)))

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  6. It seems like you're a perfect fit! How fulfilling that must be and how lucky you both are!

    Sara

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    1. Thanks very much, Sara, what a lovely compliment. I know that I am indeed lucky:) And while it is harder to say - I know that he will say that he is lucky :)

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  7. What wonderful timing. I am finding the more I give, the more I receive. When I withold or retreat, I find myself outside of his protection and finding my way back to him via my posterior. I am learning that I am safe to allow my submission to blossom. As it blossoms his dominance and protections deepens. Thank you both so much for sharing.

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    1. Hi, Dana, it is very true, I find the same, the more I give, the more he wants to give me, and then the more I want to give him. It is the loveliest of dances.

      (((hugs)))

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  8. Crying now. A few tears with my morning coffee. Well said and thank you for sharing.

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    1. Aww, happy tears I hope, DR. I love to hear Daddy's words, it is what brought me to him in the first place. And to be the subject of those words is humbling, and to be the object of his affections - just leaves me breathless.

      (((hugs)))

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  9. As usual, a beautiful and thought provoking post. You fit each other like two pieces of a jigsaw. A love story in action.

    Many hugs,

    Ami

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    1. He is very much my puzzle piece, Ami :)

      (((hugs)))

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  10. @TL Bucko - Thank you so much. We are blessed to have you read here.
    @Cat - We are truley blessed in each other Cat, and we are truley blessed to call you friend!
    @ians mrs - DD/TTWD is truley a blessed circle of love and reciprocity. Thanks for coming by!
    @Annie - True love that is worth every moment, I have found my forever with June.
    @abby - Nothing could be more encouraging than our love.
    @findingsara - We were truly made for each other!
    @Dana - We keep each other tethered and available, somedays it is the best thing we can do for each other!
    @Ami Starsong - Thank you so much, we are forever entwined!

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  11. I seem to be sliding in with late comments all over blogland! Sorry about that! :) I have to say that I just love reading here, Ward and June! Your love for each other is so special and beautifully described! I always leave here with lots of things to think about, as well as a warm fuzzy feeling. Thank you for sharing.

    The whole chicken/egg concept- cyclical cycle thing is clearly very much in play- and over here, it certainly has continued to be that way. A few months back I started to act submissive, he fed into that and began to show some dominance. I mentioned spanking, he came back a couple of days later and told me that if he was going to do that then he was going to have to step it up and lead. And it has all snow-balled in a very big way around here. I'm not sure that we have ever been happier. Very interesting stuff! Thanks again. Hugs!

    <3 Katie

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  12. Hello Katie Rob,

    Thank you for stopping by. We love meeting and interacting with new folks! We love publishing thought provoking, healthy topics that stimulate growth and healthy discussion!

    Recirpocity and light, are all cyclical and we wish you the best in your relationship!

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