Sunday, January 27, 2013
The positive effects of a good spanking
Have you ever sat and considered the impact of a evening devoted to a good, thorough spanking and earth-shaking love-making and pleasure? Normally this is something that we probably wouldn't talk about here, but the potential benefits are worth discussing and using. Throughout the time that June and I have written this blog, we have come to understand that several folks out there are... what's the term? "spank-nos". Even still, when we consider the impact that stress can have, we must understand the value that a good firm spanking can bring to the table. I tell June all the time and I think it's worth repeating here.... Good girls get firm spankings too, it helps them stay good, and in combination to deep, truly connective intimacy that smooths away the aches and stresses of the day and bring us to that special place that can only be reached by a man being intimate with his woman. Stress relief spanking require a lot of forethought and communication. It should be made clear that this is not correction or punishment, but in fact a conduit for relief and rebalance through the vigorous application of positive and direct energies. It also becomes necessary to find (or make) time to get the most out of this carefully considered time.
Making love is clearly an important part of any healthy relationship. I think some people don't realize it's true value and in some instances, might minimize or underrate the worth of spending quality time giving and receiving pleasure from our partners. There is something very spiritual about making love, in addition to the sights and sounds that make our blood boil and our passions rise, it seems only fitting that sex can open many doors, heal many wounds, smooth over feelings and reconnect after periods of heightened stress and emotion. The true value of physical release is in the freedom it brings, us. Less talking, less thinking, passion and unconditional embrace - these things are always important.
The following section is just a series of suggestions. We'd highly recommend trying one or more of these out!
If you don't already June and I would highly recommend establishing a "Date Night". Find a sitter, have the kids spend the night with Grandma etc... Go see a movie, go watch dinner, Redbox it, go bowling, spend some time laughing, and celebrating the unique bond that you share. Spend some time giving her a bubble bath or a pedicure and really spend some time pampering her... Relaxation is the key here.
Before you give her the spanking she needs, spend some time spoiling her, talk to her, let her know that she has your complete and undivided attention. When the time comes, take her in hand and give her the spanking she needs. By the spanking that she needs, I mean take the time to observe her, know her body language and the weight of her heart... Drive out the stress and take the time to show her that this is as important to you as it is for her. No distractions, no half-hearts only pure and unblemished love. Hold her close, let her emote, and let the stress vanish with the conviction of your hearts.
Give her the time she needs to feel it, hold her in your arms and be there for her. Leave only room for love and light..... Kiss her slow and soft, and then let your love for each other and your bodies do all of the talking.
We think spanking can be a very useful and wonderful part of a healthy relationship. Even in the context of pleasure and stress relief we find new meaning and a wonderful use of time and passion. We recommend it!
When I suffer stress, or when I suffer emotional pain, I need to be spanked. It is a way - for me - to take the emotional pain and transfer it to flesh - and poof - all gone. A calm relaxed girl who can move through the day without the heaviness in my heart, not feeling guilt if I feel I have been short or less than I wish to be, or my heart is just not where I like it to be. At those times the greatest gift he can give me is the gift of release.
I am a very fortunate girl. Daddy is very sensitive to my mood. And generally he will approach me and whisper in my ear that he knows what I need, and that he will take good care of me...and he always does. Other times I may text or email him at work, and tell him I need his help when he gets home. And sometimes, it's simply a way for us to reconnect after a long week of chores and responsibilities, school - his, mine, the boys' - for me to feel his delicious control, and for me to be able to bend. That for me is heaven, that puts my brain in that light, dreamy place. It lets me relinquish the negativity that seeps in, and absorb Daddy's love and light. It lets us start fresh and rejuvenated. And it lets this insomniac sleep sweet and undisturbed. For that gift, for his attention and devotion, I am grateful.