Saturday, January 5, 2013

Submission (From a Dominant's Point of View)

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dominant and submissive couples images - Google Search Submission is the sweet intoxicating liquor that pours from her vessel.  It cannot be bought, it cannot be forcibly taken, it is not a right.  I must earn it every day of our life together. She bows before me in polite deference and I know in my heart I am not worthy of this deepest display of love and devotion.  Everyday even the hard days she shows me such effort, so much grace and dignity... she never fails to make every waking moment sweet and momentous in it's brightness and fluidity.  These are not mere words from a mere man who merely loves his woman. I am Dominant, I am proud and as fierce and wild as the wind and the sea... and so is my love for her, unstoppable and undaunted lasting long before and long after we are stripped from this mortal coil. I offer her my heart and she offers me her heart. All for all, each matching the other's heart in perfect reciprocity.






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It's more than merely being  her HoH it's more than just telling her what to do or expecting things done a certain way at a certain time.  It's the sweet, soft voice and the warm comfort in her sparkling eyes that she saves just for me.  The level of interaction, the level of devotion, the level of dominance and submission would not be possible if we were with other people or if we did not have the level of vigilance and dedication to each other and the mutual cause of our relationship. 





 The depth of her willing submission to me is like the unsung treasures of old... like King Solomon's mines, like the hoard of Midas. Sweeter than the finest wine, amber like honey and bracing like the finest spirited tonic...



She is mine to love, mine to guide, mine to discipline... she is mine and in acknowledging this, I also acknowledge that I am hers  I am hers to support, her to love, hers to look to, hers to obey... She is my truest inspiration my truest vine and my support network.






Submission lifts a dominant man's spirit and gives him a candle unto the darkness of the world
Submission defers and the truth and light of D/s shines in a cold world. We the chosen few, we shine bright and the difference is visible even in the simple act of walking through Target hand in hand.
Submission feeds my dominance, and assuages my thirst for the wild, physical love that my soul has for this magnificent woman.  Submission and Dominance go hand in hand and in our quest for something greater than common we have found that this particular flavor, our brand of TTWD/DD gives us not just leadership and followership, but a way forward, clear direction and a desire for both of us to be better as a couple as well as being a better man and a better woman..

Truly submissive girl


Her submission is mine  to guard and protect,  she is my flower and I would never deliberately abuse my privileges as her Dominant or HoH. She deserves my best and in giving her my dominance I see that I feed her and give her submission it's due. It is my truest treasure and one that I will savor with a fierce love and protection all the days that follow.

Her POV

 My Daddy honors me with his love. I have never been loved as fully and without condition as he loves me. I draw my strength from him. His Dominance, in the many subtle ways he expresses it, from the simple request for a glass of water, or a piece of pie, or to put the laundry aside....they fill me with warmth, it's intoxicating, spreads through my veins - it fills me with pleasure, makes me feel soft,  makes me smile that small satisfied smile that I can serve him in those ways.

His touch, draws me to him, makes me want to please him, bids my deference, my obedience, fills me to overflowing with the desire to blanket him with my love. His kiss on my forehead, and I am wrapped in love so fierce and pure and awed - eyes lower but he pulls them back to his - and I melt into this man who is my sun, my center. Lips on my neck, I bare my throat to him, my trust, my submission, my love, my essence...I belong to him....I thrive.

In the world, he anchors me, centers me, I hold his hand and revel in being his. I revel in the quietness of our love, I revel in his soft voice, and am pleased to give him my "Yes, Daddy" and the smile that tells me that I have pleased him.

 To serve him is my pleasure and my honor. It's as simple as greeting him at the door, a refreshment ready, my attention to his presence. It's as complex as laying my heart and soul bare to him, or offering my body for his pleasure, which make no mistake is my deepest pleasure. He is my man. He is my Daddy. He is my Dominant. He is my lover. I am his submissive woman....and there is nothing better than that. I love you, Daddy.

24 comments:

  1. That was such a lovely post. I hope to find an HOH/Dom with such an amazing character. I hope you have a wonderful new year!
    Moxie

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    1. Thank you, Moxie. He is most amazing - the absolute love of my life. We hope you have a wonderful New Year as well, and luck in your search!

      (((hugs)))

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  2. I like very much to read both of your points of view. Your words are beautiful. I find them very comforting to read. They put me in mind of the Rubyat of Omah Khyam. (Probably spelt wrongly.) I hope you will write more posts like this one. Hugs, Ami

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    1. ''Alas that Spring should vanish with the rose,
      That youth's sweet manuscript should close.''

      Daddy most definitely has a talent, Ami, and if you read back in our archives - that's how we met! I read a poem he had written and was touched and wrote to tell him how lovely it was :) He loves to write, and he has several posts in the can and is planning to write more - he keeps getting inspired :)

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  3. So lovely reminds me of the moment when hubbys car pulls up the drive, and my heart starts racing and my belly starts doing somersaults cause Im just so excited that he's home. I Love that time of the day. Pure Heaven

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    1. That's my favorite, too, Annie. Any measure of time apart is an eternity, and every evening a joyous homecoming.

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  4. Love letters to each other. Beautiful

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  5. @Moxie - Thank you so much for reading, we wish you much luck in finding what you seek!
    @Ami - We are very pleased to bring you our own Points of View - we like to give different topics a duel-pronged attack! We are very happy to hear that these words bring you comfort. We will post many more post just like this one!
    @Annie - The homecoming is a beautiful time of day that June and I both love!
    @sunnygirl - Very much so, June is the truest and deepest love of my life!

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  6. Such sweet words. I have heard them from my own Dragon. This is a good reminder. I'll try a little harder to be the wife my own husband deserves.

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    1. Thank you, Dragon's Rose. And I'm betting you are exactly the wife that he dreams of :) (((hugs)))

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  7. Whenever I come to visit, whether I'm reading a post from Ward with June's POV or a post from June with Ward's POV, I experience such a warmth in my heart. No matter what the subject, you write with so much love, respect, and devotion to and for each other. You two are an inspiration!

    Hugs and Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Thank you for your kindness, Cat. He inspires me to want to be the very best I can be.

      (((hugs)))

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  8. What beautiful expressions of love for each other. I have discovered that my submission deepens my love to a level I never thought possible..I love reading here..it lifts my spirits.
    hugs abby

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    1. Thank you for your most kind words, abby. I find that true for myself, as well. It's a lovely flow, Dominance feeds submission feeds Dominance feeds love. I would never have thought it possible to feel this way for another human being (on this level - motherhood excluded, lol - that's different, children are only ours on loan :( ). There is nothing I would deny him, and I receive so much more than I have ever received.

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  9. Isn't it wonderful to know that you each complete the other. It makes you really believe in "true love" and "sole mates"

    Congratulations on a love well deserved and well nurtured.

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    1. Oh, I know in my core, fiona, that he is m'anumchara. We are one heart.

      Thank you, I hope to always be worthy :)

      (((hugs)))

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  10. Another wonderful post from Ward and June. The "tag labels" at the bottom provide a good summary of all that you have said. Submission is a beautiful gift. It takes a strong woman to offer and in the hands of a caring/strong man....well, it can't get any better.

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    1. Thanks so much, SNP :) You are very right, I cannot imagine it getting any better than this. It's exquisite!

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  11. Another beautiful post Ward, and so eloquently written. I read this to my husband in the car today and he told me everything you said is exactly how he feels about me but would not be able to express it so beautifully so thank you :)

    Submission is a gift and humbling to both giver and receiver. "She deserves my best and in giving her my dominance I see that I feed her and give her submission it's due". Those words really spoke to me.

    I couldn't agree more with your lovely words June.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thank you for your kindness, Roz. It is a deep and spiritual experience for me...and for him.... it is extraordinary. It is true reciprocity, I could not be who I am without him, and he says the same. We are lock and key.

      (((hugs)))

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  12. You both so elequently convey your love for each other. I find it hard to add my thoughts, since you just said it all!

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    1. Thanks for your very sweet comments, Minelle :)

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  13. @Dragon's Rose - The words are all true!
    @Cat - Always a delight to hear from you, we are glad you find our little place on the web an enriching experience.
    @abby - We are delighted to have you read our blog and our relationship deepens every day!
    @SirQsmlb - It really is delightful to have found my soulmate in June!
    @SNP - It really doesen't get better, we are stronger every day!
    @Roz - Thank you for your kind words, her kindness inspires, and in kind makes our relationship grow
    @Minelle Labraun - We love each other so very much! Thanks for reading Minelle!

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