I am, for the first time in my life, my authentic self. With Ward there is no need to meter thought or deed. He loves me either way. And his unconditional love and acceptance, his Dominance, allow me to be stronger and more confident than I have ever been.
I thrive on the things that he asks of me, especially those that present those small challenges; the kind that require a that I offer him my trepidation, my fears, my mask; the kind that require a humble and unfettered heart; the kind that leave me an open book that only he can read. I thrive on the essence of what we are, on feeling his strength; of knowing that everyday and in every way, in the smallest of thoughts and the most mundane of actions we are the center of each-others mind and heart, and we give those things with love and the intent to honor.
I offer to him my body, my soul, my essence, my submission, my open heart and my open arms, my undying love and my submission. I am stronger than I ever have been. He gives me the confidence of knowing that he will always be my support, and that at the end of the day, his arms and his heart will always be open to me.
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| The boy in me goes to squeeze your breast. The Dom in me goes to grab your throat. The man in me goes to feel your heart. |
HIS POV:
Dominance/submission is more than the physical things that come so naturally, it's more than the lustful crescendo of bodies attracted in mutual frenzy... it's the strong, sure connection, it's the meeting of the hearts, it's the communication of the heart and the suppression of selfishness to form something beautiful and pure and real....She bends to my will, obeys me to the letter and gives my heart a strength of love that is rare and wonderful these days. A real man gives his woman's heart the attention it craves, desires, needs and deserves. She did such a wonderful job with her assignment and these inspirational images capture us at our essence
Dominance/submission is more than the physical things that come so naturally, it's more than the lustful crescendo of bodies attracted in mutual frenzy... it's the strong, sure connection, it's the meeting of the hearts, it's the communication of the heart and the suppression of selfishness to form something beautiful and pure and real....She bends to my will, obeys me to the letter and gives my heart a strength of love that is rare and wonderful these days. A real man gives his woman's heart the attention it craves, desires, needs and deserves. She did such a wonderful job with her assignment and these inspirational images capture us at our essence
LOVE! I also totally agree with you, new though I am with the confidence... TTWD/D/s whatever you call it, does amazing things for a sub's confidence. I guess that means we have pretty great Doms. ;)
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Thanks, HisLilAngel, it's hard to try to put into words, but the essence is that as much as my submission and yielding are a gift to him, his Dominance and control are gifts to me. It's not something that is overt, and it may take a while to truly understand it - I didn't until a meeting at school.
DeleteThinking back to a meeting a few years ago when we ironed out my oldest son's IEP, before Daddy, I was a mess, I cried, I was weak and unconfident. This last meeting, I was very confident, I spoke with clarity about what our son needs and what we expected from the school, what we do and were willing to do. When I left, I thought - wow....nothing has changed except now we have Ward in our lives.
Just seems testament to the fact that submissive women are among the strongest. Daddy always says he is amazed by my strength. I'm grateful for it, and it's roots are found in his heart, in his confidence in me and love of our family.
I totally understand... I am not quite there yet, but I do understand what you mean. Being submissive is not about clipping your wings, and making you dependent. It's about showing you how to and that you CAN fly, because He shows you that you can, in all ways. It really is an *exchange* in that sense. His strength and power and confidence, his dominance is.......Gosh, the words escape me now. They strengthen you. Empower you. Free you. In the knowledge that you CAN, and you WILL simply because He knows you can, and that's enough. Being a sub for many women flips all of your beliefs about yourself on their head, in the very best way. It starts small, and then it grows, and grows. I am already experiencing growth, and it's pretty awe inspiring..... Ok, your response now has my head spinning towards some pretty deep thoughts. I'll stop here for now. I need to process. Thank you.
DeleteLOL - and I understand that. He gave me the assignment, it was pretty lengthy. And I just kept on thinking and refining, and some of my subsequent thoughts are here. We had this post in the can, with mostly just the images and his POV. But I guess that's the idea, to get us thinking, and then let us refine our thoughts, and gain new understanding - crafty lot they are!
DeleteAnd yes - it is the reciprocity, I can and I do because he wishes it, he supports it, I grow, I support him, he grows, we are closer, we grow. It's beautiful!
June: Thank-you for sharing this with us--what an incredibly creative assignment.
DeleteLove the images and the feel of this whole post. May I borrow the last image with the words? Its sparked an idea for a post.
Thanks, Bleuame, you most certainly may :) I can't wait to see it!
DeleteVery well said June. It's all encompassing in so many different ways and you consistently voice it so well here.
ReplyDeleteThanks very much, Susie, I am honored by your words, and so pleased that I can convey the enormity of the emotion with the paucity of my words.
DeleteWOW - you just sent chills up and down my spine. I don't care what you call it (D/s, TTWD, DD, whatever), the beauty of the love between the two of you is incredible and inspirational. Thank you so much for sharing.
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Cat
Thank you so very much, Cat. I give thanks every moment of every day for the richness of the blessings in my life.
DeleteLovely, Junie, really lovely.
ReplyDeleteThe first imagine really reminds me of the beginning of dd with Ian. He insisted that we start there, and it worked very well. Kneeling in front of him, offering myself to him, trusting was something of a break through for me.....I left a lot of ego on that floor when I got up.
Loved Ward's prose in answer - and also....what Cat said......ditto
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lillie
Thanks, Lillie. Offering myself to Ward is one of my most favorite, reverential things to do - having my heart accepted is the epitome of peace and comfort.
DeleteThanks! He has a way with words :)
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ReplyDeleteI love this.
good job!
Thanks, Fondles :) I enjoy finding the images that speak to me :)
DeleteBeautiful June, very well said. Love the pics!
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Thanks so much, Roz :) There's a plethora of gorgeous things on Pinterest. I have a whole folder of links & as I can I peruse & scarf what I like, that speaks of us. These 'Images of' posts will probably become a regular 'featurette' :)
DeleteAbsolutely beautiful as always :)
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, M3 :)
DeleteYou both sound so happy and in love, it's in every word you write, what a beautiful thing to see.
ReplyDeleteI have never loved this way before, Caitlin, and neither have I ever been loved so completely until Ward. He is truly my heart. Thank you :)
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