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What Is A Daddy Dom?
The previous explanation was taken directly from another website.
This explanation was written by my friend Llie. Thank you Llie!
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Daddy-Dom is simply the Dominant partner in a D/s relationship. Like a
Master or Dom, a Daddy is the top in their relationship and owns or
cares for the submissive. Depending on your own personal preferences and
relationship dynamic, a Daddy can be many things to his little but
there are some generalities that exist in most Daddy/little
relationships.
His
love for his babygirl goes without question. He loves her as much for
who she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. she is ......
His prized possession. a Daddy's eyes will light up when she comes into
a room and take great pride in her success's. Afterall, He helped to
create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart and has greatest
power to hurt Him.
This
love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel
pride in his lilgirl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the
outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for
the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase it’s
value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man
and she chooses to be with Him.
He
knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His
discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In
order for the lilgirl to really trust, she must know He means what He
says. If His lilgirl is going to be the best she can possibly be He must
stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of her to
provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.
If
He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing.
If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing
her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes
impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be
possessed by someone you do not respect.
This
takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and
to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her
confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out
into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms. And
it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be
disciplined.
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Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His
submissive...acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her,
everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she
knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t
matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.
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Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many
Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their
submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many lilgirls
because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an
incredibly fulfilling relationship.
I
think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the
role of Male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their
power to enrich that life. Daddy/lilgirl verbalizes that feeling, and
adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants
crave.
Perhaps a Daddy Dom is something only a lilgirl can understand.
Daddy as a Father
Unlike age players or role players, Daddies
do not consider themselves a father to their little. They consider their
role much like how a Dom would look at their role over their sub.
Though their little may call them Daddy, they are not observed as a
father and they don’t look at their little as if they were their child.
What do Daddy-Doms Do?
Daddies are in charge of their little. While
they do not pretend to be their little’s father, they will take on a
parental role as the Dominant. They are there to protect, guide, nurture
and love their little. While in some D/s relationships, the Dominate
may order their submissive frivolously for their own pleasure, a Daddy
will order or set rules for their little based on nurturing goals and
what is best for their little.
Why do Daddies like littles?
This can be asked the same for any
relationship. Daddies like little's based on their own personal likes
and dislikes and what they find attractive. A Daddy should enjoy the
regression that their little naturally does and appreciate the
child-like attributes of their little, but they will also find their
adult side attractive.
The Title Daddy
There is a big difference between Daddy as a
title for a Dominant in a D/s relationship and Daddy as a title for a
father. While many have some reservations about this title, it is
nothing more than that: a title. Daddies are not interested in
pedophilia, incest or any other paraphernalia associated with children
even though their title is often misunderstood and associated with
that. When a little calls her Daddy by title, the feeling associated is
nothing like the feeling she would get when she calls her father the
same title. It’s the same with any other multi-use word in our language.
For instance, the world love can be used to describe many things. You
don’t have the same feelings for when you say you love bubbles as you do
when you say you love your spouse.
Daddies and Sex
A lot of people just starting out in this
lifestyle wonder if it’s still okay to have sex. As two consenting
partners in a loving relationship, sex should be normal. Just like any
other relationship, sex is natural and healthy for growth and bonding.
Sex in a Daddy/little relationship is not done like that of role players
where the sexual attraction may in some cases stem from deep seeded
interest in incest or pedophilia. Sex between a Daddy and his little is
just like sex between any people in a relationship; as two consenting
adults.
Daddy-Dom v. Master
Daddies are very similar to Masters but there
are some striking differences. First, Daddies cherish their
submissive's little side and encourage her to come out and play. Second,
Daddies are strict about different things. Where a Master may be strict
about procedure and protocol, Daddies are more concerned with their
submissive's goals and needs. Third, a Daddy can be more playful than
most Masters. Masters tend to have to be more rigid with their
submissive or slaves. Of course, we aren’t saying Masters are unable to
show affection or be playful. But as a Daddy, playfulness is practically
a part of the job description. It’s something you would have to do in
order to keep up with your little.
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