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Hi Bea :) That's a tricky one, and it will vary from person to person, like everything else about this life. I think that there are things we can do to help ourselves get to that place. I went back and read your posts to date to try and get an idea of what you're dealing with.
It takes work, even when you are naturally submissive,even more when it doesn't come naturally. I'd recommend reading Ward's post on submission exercises. Then in those moments when you feel fear, stop close your eyes, take a breath and remember that this is something you desire with a man that you trust. Then work on accepting his leadership with grace.
The more mindful you are the easier and more natural it becomes.
I hope that helps, if not, feel free to ask anything or email.
How long before DD felt natural?
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Hi Bea :) That's a tricky one, and it will vary from person to person, like everything else about this life. I think that there are things we can do to help ourselves get to that place. I went back and read your posts to date to try and get an idea of what you're dealing with.
DeleteIt takes work, even when you are naturally submissive,even more when it doesn't come naturally. I'd recommend reading Ward's post on submission exercises. Then in those moments when you feel fear, stop close your eyes, take a breath and remember that this is something you desire with a man that you trust. Then work on accepting his leadership with grace.
The more mindful you are the easier and more natural it becomes.
I hope that helps, if not, feel free to ask anything or email.
(((hugs)))