tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post953487111095960224..comments2024-01-02T10:58:06.466-08:00Comments on The Dish with Ward and June: June's Journey and What Spanking Means to HerJunehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-70545493508435112162013-02-13T16:03:39.110-08:002013-02-13T16:03:39.110-08:00You're most welcome, Blue Bird. I am the same ...You're most welcome, Blue Bird. I am the same way. Ward understands that now, but the first time was rough. I needed it to purge my own guilt, and he was ready to move on and hurt, asking if his grace was not enough... which made me cry more. <br /><br />I'm glad I'm not alone :) Looking up, you'll see we have some very good company. <br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-5752007657655216632013-02-13T13:24:57.315-08:002013-02-13T13:24:57.315-08:00I am late to the party. I feel the same as severa...I am late to the party. I feel the same as several here June. You very simply expressed what becomes very convoluted in my mind when I try to find a way to describe why I want this life. "it takes conflicts and anxieties inside of me and delivers them to flesh where they evaporate", this is what I want. I can carry anxiety from a plethora of things that leave me sleepless and at times shaking with it. It does no good to tell me it wasn't my fault or responsibility. It does no good to tell me to let it go....I don't know how. <br />Thank you June!<br />Blue BirdBlue Birdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06173540938552974351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-25548368704465870212013-02-10T09:11:33.451-08:002013-02-10T09:11:33.451-08:00Thanks most kindly, Sara. It's a very spiritua...Thanks most kindly, Sara. It's a very spiritual experience for us... we find all of life to be that way with each other. That's an amazing thing that I never thought I would find :)Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-83318984080123645922013-02-10T07:53:40.223-08:002013-02-10T07:53:40.223-08:00Jacquie,
I cannot tell you how very moved I was by...Jacquie,<br />I cannot tell you how very moved I was by your comment. I am glad that my humble thoughts helped you to express your heart to Dave. It helps me, too, you know, to know that I'm not a freak. Sometimes I think that no one else could ever feel the way I feel... that no one would ever understand.<br /><br />Like you, I can deny him nothing, an essay is an easy task. If I had to write one about personal positive attitude, well, I might end up getting corrected over that. No, not that I would balk, but I might have a hard time coming up with anything worth saying before the time limit was up. Though I did actually say something good about my self the other day..... twice, even if it was kind of backhanded, it was positive, and it was about me. So I'll take it, lol, little victories!<br /><br />Thank you again, you warmed my heart tonight.<br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-80533917643732980302013-02-10T07:31:11.129-08:002013-02-10T07:31:11.129-08:00This was really beautiful June and Ward. It speaks...This was really beautiful June and Ward. It speaks from your heart and it touches mine. I feel much the same on so many levels. Thank you for sharing this!<br /><br />SaraSarahttp://findingsara.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-82575369524692566532013-02-09T04:54:44.297-08:002013-02-09T04:54:44.297-08:00June,
I wanted to comment earlier, but wanted Dave...June,<br />I wanted to comment earlier, but wanted Dave to read it first. You've beautifully put into words what I have been trying to explain to him about what spankings mean to me, what they do for me. I love the way you described it. It's funny that this has been difficult for me to explain to him, but it has. Thank you for helping me show Dave. Perhaps if he were to assign me an essay such as Ward did for you, then having to sit and think it out would have caused me to have to search myself more and perhaps find words similar to what you wrote. Like you, I wouldn't have a problem with writing it, it would be just as him asking me to complete any task. Like you also, I have the most difficulty with talking poorly about myself. It's something I've been working on alot of late; I'd like to say I've made progress but that would depend on when I'm asked about it what my answer would be. If I were to have an attitude with the assignment of an essay it would be one on the subject of personal positive attributes that would give me the most difficulty. It's still a work in progress. Perhaps down the road I will be at a point where I could write one for Dave that reads as beautifully as the words you shared above. I know that would please him immensely, and it would give me great joy to bring that to him. <br />Thank you to both of you for being an example and an inspiration for me on my own journey, and to help me have the words for Dave to understand how I look at and feel the world around me. ((hugs))Jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03977010794301234785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-50938170093036673512013-02-07T18:15:54.709-08:002013-02-07T18:15:54.709-08:00Thank you so much, Ami, for your very sweet messag...Thank you so much, Ami, for your very sweet message. Mmmm, I love the smell of lavender...as you can tell, lol. I love doing things with Ward and the boys and I love doing things for them. I am hopelessly old-fashioned. Sharing the small things... it's amazing, a kiss or hug for no reason... just because I love you... just because I'm grateful you are here in my life. <br /><br />The womb donor, she was a puncher and a kicker. There was no discipline, there were beatings, and just because the coffee wasn't hot, or she was mad at a boyfriend. *Shrugs* I think I went the other way. There was no spankings, no loving discipline, and that is what I craved, unconditional love, loving discipline and consistency, surety and safety. I know what you mean, and I'm sorry for what happened to you. (((hugs)))<br /><br />The effects on our life are just amazing. The happiness and contentment shine, it shows in us and in our children. I know some people don't understand, but I wish that could just see and accept all the positives it brings to our lives. I'm so happy that you found your stride, and your peaceful place. Everyone should experience this kind of love :)<br /><br />(((hugs))) and you guys are still in our prayers!<br /><br />Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-4397043845086020412013-02-07T10:51:14.329-08:002013-02-07T10:51:14.329-08:00"Such things that dreams are made of..."..."Such things that dreams are made of..." <br /><br />Inspirational post June. Thank you for sharing. Whilst I realise that your life and mine have been continents apart, we are now in similar places. I've always loved, and always will love, making a home for my family. Cooking, fresh flowers, ironing with lavender water. Starman and I even fold the 'sheets' together chatting about everyday things as we do so.<br /><br />It's a great thing to be able to "share". Folk miss a lot if they don't want to share. If we share the events of our lives, like birthdays and anniversaries, then surely we should also share the small things? <br /><br />I wasn't brought up with spanking. In fact, my dad had a bit of a temper, and what I got were hard hits across the face. So to me spanking was a little scary when I first read about it, and indeed, I wondered why on earth anyone would want such a thing. But gradually my curiosity got the better of me, I started to read blogs, and learn about Dd, and the rest has become history. However, I am happy to move very slowly, gradually learning this thing together. I am still nervous of the thought of discipline and punishment. Starman has learned to warm me up gently and carefully, before using any form of implement. And I suppose what we use is for 'kittens'. I really want to please him. I was so horrid, for so long, that even now I don't know how he stood it. I am just loving the closeness we are now sharing. Our home is such a peaceful place, that even members of the family are beginning to comment on our new way with each other. We just smile knowingly.<br /><br />I so enjoy reading your blogs, June and Ward. I learn a lot from them, and from your relationship with one another.<br /><br />Many hugs,<br /><br />AmiAmi Starsonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01745610022591654541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-39175194205718027712013-02-07T06:51:11.396-08:002013-02-07T06:51:11.396-08:00Thank so much, elle :) It was from my heart :)
((...Thank so much, elle :) It was from my heart :)<br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-7953962168870430762013-02-07T06:06:57.147-08:002013-02-07T06:06:57.147-08:00Such a beautifully written, sweet post! I love it ...Such a beautifully written, sweet post! I love it :) elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-14309722791679730152013-02-06T20:33:31.155-08:002013-02-06T20:33:31.155-08:00Thanks most kindly, tiffany :)Thanks most kindly, tiffany :)Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-81005606865849564772013-02-06T20:33:00.394-08:002013-02-06T20:33:00.394-08:00Thanks so much, Bea :) (((hugs)))Thanks so much, Bea :) (((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-20933754647902790572013-02-06T18:55:39.845-08:002013-02-06T18:55:39.845-08:00What a sincere and heartfelt postWhat a sincere and heartfelt posttiffanyhttp://trazuresdarkcove.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-12984679549954398782013-02-06T18:53:59.473-08:002013-02-06T18:53:59.473-08:00Truly beautiful!Truly beautiful!New Beahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16817059318138574794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-64294044995391163702013-02-06T14:32:30.111-08:002013-02-06T14:32:30.111-08:00That's something that we talk about quite a bi...That's something that we talk about quite a bit, Grace, how our life might be different if we had to change up our dynamic instead of having the benefit of coming into it like this. It's actually a post I'm working on :)<br /><br />Yes, as you know, I haven't had a typical life. But I understand somewhere deep inside that everything that happened for a reason. And everything that happened, and every choice I made put me right here. And right here with Ward, well there's nowhere else I'd rather be. We all have our own journeys. And each experience is necessary to put us in the path we need to follow, and to help us appreciate the things that we have. <br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-89231037726701625452013-02-06T14:22:26.075-08:002013-02-06T14:22:26.075-08:00Thanks most kindly, Susie. He makes it so, I have ...Thanks most kindly, Susie. He makes it so, I have never been so fearless in a relationship. <br /><br />Don't kick me now, but it never occurred to me to be upset or resistant to his requests for essays, lol. He asked and he's Daddy. I kind of like when he does things like that. For me it's no different to his asking for something special for dinner, or to do something physically submissive. It's his right to ask, and my duty to comply. *ducks* But don't worry - I make up for it in other areas, lol...like talking poorly about myself - sigh - someday I'll get it. <br /><br />(((hugs)))<br /><br />Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-76765426740501821492013-02-06T14:16:30.603-08:002013-02-06T14:16:30.603-08:00Aww, thank you for your sweet words, Annie. Thanks...Aww, thank you for your sweet words, Annie. Thanks you. I know! When I am stressed, boy I have even asked for the dreaded Mr. Studly, just anything to get me to that point of surrender. <br /><br />He is always so calm, even when I am spinning wildly. I am grateful for his calming force in my life. <br /><br />(((Hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-3520461821481988962013-02-06T14:12:30.482-08:002013-02-06T14:12:30.482-08:00Thanks so much, Roz. He is a most amazing leader, ...Thanks so much, Roz. He is a most amazing leader, and I would not be who I am without him. I've never imagined it could be so good :)<br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-49712286257153087852013-02-06T14:10:26.216-08:002013-02-06T14:10:26.216-08:00Awwww, I'm sorry, Cat :) He does bring out the...Awwww, I'm sorry, Cat :) He does bring out the best in me. I cannot remember life before him, and I can't imagine life without him. <br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-54179871998191639372013-02-06T10:18:53.799-08:002013-02-06T10:18:53.799-08:00Like Susie, it made me wonder how I'd react if...Like Susie, it made me wonder how I'd react if Michael wanted me to write him an essay. I don't really know, other than I'd be in shock. lol Often when reading your posts I wonder how things would've been different in my marriage over the years if we'd started off with this dynamic. But I try to remember that everything Michael and I have been through is what's brought us to where we are today. Anyway, thanks for sharing this! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-36287048257614321852013-02-06T04:44:42.711-08:002013-02-06T04:44:42.711-08:00This was beautiful June. I love how you share you...This was beautiful June. I love how you share your heart with Ward so openly. I read this and then I thought, what would I do if MM asked me to write an essay. LOL...I think I'd have a ton of attitude for some time before I got down to work. I have much to learn...so I'll keep reading! :)<br /><br />Thanks to you both, as usual.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-21911978016173403482013-02-06T03:15:37.226-08:002013-02-06T03:15:37.226-08:00June thank you for sharing your heart. That was so...June thank you for sharing your heart. That was so beautifully described, you can almost feel the Love you share. As for the spanking right about now I would take the hardest one on record. haha need that stress relief you spoke of that peace. Ward after reading your post I think I understand my husband more. Hes always so peaceful and calm he says its because he knows he has me at home. I pray to be more like him. Hugs Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12409300680541773011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-64297854962895744732013-02-05T23:40:09.426-08:002013-02-05T23:40:09.426-08:00This is so beautiful. Such an amazing expression ...This is so beautiful. Such an amazing expression of your submission, love and devotion June and of your leadership Ward.<br /><br />Thank you so much for sharing this with us. It is truly inspirational to the rest of us, as is the wonderful, deeply connected relationship you share.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-89055525464210982572013-02-05T22:04:13.746-08:002013-02-05T22:04:13.746-08:00Ok Junie - ya got me in tears (good ones I promise...Ok Junie - ya got me in tears (good ones I promise). Ward brings out the you that you were always meant to be and you bring out the him he was always meant to be. Together, you are an awesome, loving couple and a shining example to all of us!<br /><br />Blessings,<br />CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-16848393278228110902013-02-05T20:16:07.452-08:002013-02-05T20:16:07.452-08:00Thanks most kindly, fiona :)Thanks most kindly, fiona :)Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.com