tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post5144055800761429409..comments2024-01-02T10:58:06.466-08:00Comments on The Dish with Ward and June: Missing my DaddyJunehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-39707249471848219032013-01-23T17:22:31.656-08:002013-01-23T17:22:31.656-08:00Thanks so much, Anonymous - we're waiting for ...Thanks so much, Anonymous - we're waiting for news from a detailer right now. That will decide whether he reups or comes out. It takes a toll on a family, and we struggle so much without him. Yes, it is pretty much survival and nothing more. Thanks so much, it's nice to be understood :) I'm glad you made it out with your sanity! Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-84625183304301486292013-01-22T21:24:13.994-08:002013-01-22T21:24:13.994-08:00June,
I understand where you were. My husband di...June,<br /><br />I understand where you were. My husband did 6 1/2 six month cruises during our marriage. We survived it, but it was awful, especially once we had children. Good luck with future deployments, if you plan on your daddy continuing in the military to retirement. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-4735894411998370172012-04-24T19:00:45.963-07:002012-04-24T19:00:45.963-07:00Thanks, Stormy, ((((hugs)))). Stinks - he's my...Thanks, Stormy, ((((hugs)))). Stinks - he's my strength, you know? [that was rhetorical, I know you do :-)]. Thanks, just want something with his essence, his scent. Course I'll look like a freak walking around sniffing into my plastic bags - but I don't care....no, Officer, not huffing, honest - it's Daddy scent!Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-42887024896523325152012-04-24T18:38:11.278-07:002012-04-24T18:38:11.278-07:00So sorry..I know how it is to be trying to be stro...So sorry..I know how it is to be trying to be strong but not feeling strong at all. I love the shirts idea. It's healthy to take action when you are feeling this way. ((((hugs))))Stormyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16673792378276047115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-48022156183746048952012-04-24T13:35:58.561-07:002012-04-24T13:35:58.561-07:00Thanks very much, Jacquie. I am so much harder on ...Thanks very much, Jacquie. I am so much harder on myself than anyone else could ever be. Daddy gets on me all the time for it. Bless you, too, for your eight years. <br /><br />That's the rub - I always hold back, so it's just like a little pressure cooker. Just enough tears so I don't explode. I need him to give me that release, to guide me past the point of letting go. But maybe tonight after the boys go to bed I'll just be very quiet and feel him, and see if I can let him take me there. <br /><br />Thanks so much for your kinds words and support. {{{hugs}}}Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-66444149314987043002012-04-24T13:28:38.118-07:002012-04-24T13:28:38.118-07:00Thanks, my friend, yesterday & today - feels l...Thanks, my friend, yesterday & today - feels like a huge gaping chest wound. And I don't feel like I'm being of much service to him, 'cause he needs me to be strong - and you know the drill - sometimes you can't bee 100% honest AND be strong at the same time. I'm not letting any distance in, I'm still loving him hard, and I DID tell him I cried, just not how much, know what I mean? Knowing him, though, he'll know. He's magic. I'll tell him you said hi :)<br /><br />Thanks, I appreciate it - hugs - you & Monster may find an overnight guest on your porch at - oh about 3 this morning, lol.Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-70750850370812068702012-04-24T12:29:51.250-07:002012-04-24T12:29:51.250-07:00My husband spent the first eight years of our marr...My husband spent the first eight years of our marriage in the Army. I did alot of fussy and whiny and weepy. It's all part of the ups and downs. I thank both of you for the sacrifices your making for service to our country. Don't be so hard on yourself. A good cry is needed every so often. (((hugs)))Jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03977010794301234785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-11611788825329091722012-04-24T09:09:01.578-07:002012-04-24T09:09:01.578-07:00*Big ginormous cuddlehugs*
My heart goes out to y...*Big ginormous cuddlehugs*<br /><br />My heart goes out to you girlie. Like Kitty said, I can't deal when Monster is gone for more than a few hours past his normal "away" time. I can't even fathom the...pain, I would feel if it were an extended amount of time. You have my respect, both of you, for the distance and strength between the two of you. Him for his service to this country and you for your service to him. <br /><br />I'm always here sweetie, whenever you need me.MonstrsNightmarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01255178217062735503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-69776830156200432562012-04-24T08:58:02.766-07:002012-04-24T08:58:02.766-07:00Thanks, Kitty,
I just want him to be proud. I kn...Thanks, Kitty, <br /><br />I just want him to be proud. I know he'd say, it's okay, love, you just need your Daddy. And I do. I'm not ashamed of missing him, I'm ashamed of....being fussy and whiny and weepy - sigh<br /><br />hugs & love,<br />JuneJunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-28425588481191146982012-04-24T08:46:27.301-07:002012-04-24T08:46:27.301-07:00Hey, I think it's normal to feel what you'...Hey, I think it's normal to feel what you're feeling. I don't view you as whiny or weak or weepy...not at all! On the other hand, I'm the one that hates for my Daddy to be gone for even a day. I feel so ashamed when military wives such as yourself have to deal with much longer separations than I ever have. Please don't feel ashamed of missing your Daddy!<br /><br />I'll be praying for you!!!<br /><br />Love,<br />KittyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-72442041870957738042012-04-24T06:49:36.440-07:002012-04-24T06:49:36.440-07:00Thanks, Kitty. I feel... I dunno, weak, weepy and ...Thanks, Kitty. I feel... I dunno, weak, weepy and whiny. I should be able to do this. Lots of women do. He loves me, he gave me tools I alternate between feeling so full of him , and feeling totally empty because he's not here - he's in the great 'out there' but I need to see him and touch him and taste him and feel him. I think the shirts may help us both. I wonder if he misses me as much as I miss him... I hope it gets better after the first mail exchange.... well a little better anyway, lol.<br /><br />thanks again for your kind encouragement, I'll send your wishes to Ward.<br /><br />Love,<br />JuneJunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8497106283340212317.post-19777176842447000982012-04-24T06:02:07.599-07:002012-04-24T06:02:07.599-07:00I'm so sorry that you're separated from yo...I'm so sorry that you're separated from your husband, but I want you to know I have the utmost thanks for the service he provides to our country!<br /><br />Also, I think that's a really neat idea about the t-shirts:).<br /><br />Love,<br />KittyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com